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You’ve Spent Years Being the Nice Girl. Now It’s Time to Be the Woman Who Knows Her Worth.

The Former Doormat Club is a free sisterhood for women ready to stop people-pleasing, rebuild their confidence, and finally live life on their own terms.

You’ve Taken Care of Everyone Else for So Long… You Forgot About You.

You’ve said yes when your heart whispered no.
You’ve smiled through disrespect to “keep the peace.”
You’ve held yourself back because you didn’t want to make anyone uncomfortable.

But that ends here.

You’re not meant to be small — you’re meant to be seen, respected, and free.

Inside the Former Doormat Club, you’ll learn how to:

Set boundaries that actually stick
Stop apologizing for existing
Rebuild your confidence from the inside out
Speak your truth without guilt
Take up space without fear

This is where you stop surviving and start reclaiming your peace.

Imagine Waking Up Without Guilt or Second-Guessing Yourself

You start your day calm instead of anxious.
You speak up for yourself — without rehearsing every word.
You finally feel free from the pressure to please everyone else.

This isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about coming home to who you’ve been all along.

I’ve Been Where You Are — and I Know the Way Out.

I Get It — Because I’ve Been There.

I’m Jenni, the founder of Mindset Matters Coaching and The Former Doormat Club.

For years, I lived for everyone but myself. I was exhausted, anxious, and constantly seeking approval that never came.

It took years of inner work and hard truth to realize:
You don’t need anyone’s permission to take your life back. And no one is going to save you but yourself.

Now I help women do the same — one boundary, one belief, and one breakthrough at a time.

Inside the club, you’ll get free access to community support, mindset tools, and live sessions designed to help you step out of your “doormat” identity and into your confidence.

This Isn’t Just a Community. It’s a Revolution in Self-Worth.

Every woman here made a choice:

To stop apologizing.

To stop shrinking.

To start showing up — fully, boldly, and without guilt.

You don’t need to do it alone.

You just need to start.

What’s at Stake If Nothing Changes?

Without Support:
❌ You’ll keep saying “yes” when you really mean “no.”
❌ You’ll keep shrinking yourself to keep the peace.
❌ You’ll wake up one day wondering where you went.

With Support:
✅ You’ll say “no” with confidence — and zero guilt.
✅ You’ll attract people who respect your boundaries.
✅ You’ll finally live as your bold, authentic, unapologetic self.

💬 The choice is yours — keep playing small, or start living for you.

You’ve Tried People-Pleasing. You’ve Tried Staying Small.
Try Choosing You.